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I know you're all talking about lasting a long time with us younger ladies. I can't speak on behalf of everyone, but I do know, with the older man I'm casually seeing now, if he were to go too long, it would just be uncomfortable for me. I'm very little (my favorite description: "tight as a twelve year old"), and, well, he's very large. Obviously, I feel great for him, but he can be a little overwhelming for me, depending on the evening.
The length of time does not equate to the level of pleasure. Some of the most fabulous, powerful orgasms I've ever had took all of about five to ten minutes to achieve. While at the same time, some of the worst sex I've ever had was boring and lengthy, so I thought it would NEVER end. And, while I can have multiple orgasms, why would you want to overcompensate when all I really wanted was the experience?
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Go to Pracilla's and look for a herbal supplement. They have them there and THEY WORK!!! Good for 4-5 hours, no side effect. Good luck
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Depends on what you mean by a "long time" I think most girls would like at least a good 15-20 min but if you can go more than once that always helps
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well i the myth is that thinking non-sexy thoughts is one way i suppose. But if i am not 2 sure how long a guy will last, then i will give him head first, then have penetration.
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Thinking non-sexy thoughts never worked for me. What works is practice. If I've been a long time without a partner, it's VERY tough to "hold it together" with a new woman, but repeated encounters take the "edge" off and allows for longer encounters. As others have said, going too long can be a DIS-advantage, too.
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Lasting a "long time" with a younger woman is no different than with a woman of any age. The only difference that her youth may make is that her possible "inexperience" may lead her to believe that having sex means having the guy pound her fast and furious until either he, she or they explode in orgasm and applying the same theory to sucking a guy. With a few exceptions, this is a good way to guarantee a quick male orgasm. (something the "pros" learned a long time ago - lol).
The idea of doing something to decrease sensitivity or distract your mind from the excitement and sensations is a lousy idea (personal opinion) as it defeats the entire purpose of making love or having sex. Why deprive yourself of the full sensual experience.
The people who have discussed getting to know and be in tune with what is happening to your body have the key. It is possible to bring yourself to the edge with full sensory awareness and enjoyment without allow yourself to go over the edge. Not always easy, but doable. It is important that your partner also be a partner in keeping you at but not over the edge until ready. As in so many things that are discussed in this forum, communication is the key - spoken and unspoken. It is possible to make love for hours with almost constant stimulation. But who is being stimulated, how and at what intensity constantly changes. My personal experience has been that it gets easier to not cum as the session goes on without losing firmness or sensitivity. The first few minutes are the most "dangerous".
Making love/having sex (not just intercourse) is a dance and you and your partner are each the music that you move to and get into sync with.
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Do you time your sessions with a younger woman? Just enjoy it man. Please her and you will be pleased.
Peace and Love, Turq
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